I think everyone can agree that 2011 was one hell of a year, both in a good and bad way. Yes, many important global events shaped the history books like the Arizona shooting, the earthquake and nuclear meltdown in Japan, death of Osama Bin Laden, and the Occupy Wall Street movement.
But in the end, personally, this year was a whirlwind. There has been a lot of ups and down in the road from breakups to vacations to fights with family to getting back in the dating game to finding out that my boss is retiring from his tenure in Congress and I will be out of a job in less than 12 months. Whirlwind, seriously. (I actually have a few other choice words for this year but will save that for myself.)
At the end of the year, we have a tendency of assessing our lives and the decisions we’ve made over the last year. We come to terms with some, vow to never do other, and continue to make the ones that make us happy, whatever they may be. We become closer with people who were only strangers or unknowns a year ago and fall apart from people who thought would always be there for us. We live, learn, laugh, and love.
I don’t like to be one of those people who thinks that just because it’s the start of a new year, month, week, day, etc, that it’s going to different. But I think that with the start of a new year, month, week, day, etc, hope for the start of a new job, love, friend, hobby, etc, resonates in people. New brings new ambition, dreams, and goals. It brings out optimism in all of us. It makes us hope for something better and the idea of humanity.
So with this new year I’ve made a few promises, not resolutions…
I promise to do something I love at least once a week, whether that be cooking or baking or going for a long run.
I promise to make a better effort about keeping in touch with my friends that do not live close by.
I promise to find peace and solace within myself.
I promise to do more things for other that are less fortunate by volunteering at Habitat for Humanity and other organizations I agree with.
I promise to work on my relationship with my brother because one day he will be the only family I have.
I promise to not be so bitchy, selfish, shallow, and a liar.
I promise to be a better person then the one I am right now.
And with that, I will end one year and start something new. Best of luck to all!!